If someone were to make the worst mistake I have ever made, would I forgive them? It is easy to see the wrongness in my own actions, damage in mistakes I have made, and it might be harder to see reasons for forgiveness does not equate to it would be right to not forgive them.
More proximity to a problem not always more Grace and Forgiveness inspired. Forgiving self, capacity to give self Forgiveness and Grace factors into knowns, knowns that have the potential to factor into Grace and Forgiveness, that might not always be talked about and voiced as it might factor into reminders for self that are less than ideal.
Forgiveness and Grace is valuable, more is not guaranteed, and amplifies less than ideally. More conversation not always better, Love matters greatly, has potential to be game changing.
Just because it is not easy to see reasons to Forgive and give Grace does not equate to it is wise to not give Forgiveness and Grace. Ideal visibility, perception, and comprehension required to give Grace or Forgiveness is an unwise per-requisite, does not factor in all the ways the system, life, and comprehension amplify less than ideally. Giving to others based upon the unknown, including Love in form of Grace, Forgiveness, and Making Peace that is more than just fluff is likely to be profitable in not fully appreciated ways. Luke 6:38 “Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over.”
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