New drinkers do not always know their limits.
Alcohol is used at times for the wrong reasons.
Some Fraternity men have at times turned up success. Some Fraternity men have at times turned up excess.
Success, Successful factors into perceived as a man, a valuable man.
Networking is power, desire to Network can be turned up as a requirement perceived to be valued as a Man.
Men in their early 20s aren’t always valued for what they say and what they know, experience factors into perception of advice as wisdom or advice not based upon personal experience.
Bad choices and desire to fit in amps, with potentially horrific results. All results that happen are not talked about and are thus limited from feedback. Feedback factors into what people actually know and train to do better in society. Real Conversation can be limited in horrible ways likely unknown to most parties joining a fraternity. Problems not always voiced factors into limited visibility decision making that has high potential for not always heeded.
Men in late teens early 20s have limited experience thus don’t always perceive or comprehend dangers that have high potential for being limited via obfuscation.
I lived through it, I think likely not fully comprehendible.
Men in late teens and early 20s don’t always protect their hearts, upsell situations that they have very limited visibility of to ideal perception and comprehension. Relationship didn’t work because I didn’t try hard enough leads to perception of self as failure, potential for turning up self loathing in not fully appreciated ways. The situation can many times have nothing to do with the person in pursuit or with the person being pursued. Mismatches in communication, Communication gains only achieved through experiences of time and life factor into ability to perceive and comprehend a situation. Initial Perception and Comprehension gets upsold to ideal. Two people might have worked better at another time in their lives, different places different experiences do not always amp sufficiently to create real bonds. Life is but a vapor, shortest path factors into throughput and decision making not always in sufficient ways.
Able to comprehend there are many different experiences that are only known after time invested rings truer at 40 than when I was 20. Still easy to think I have seen it all, understand it all, when I don’t. Keeping mind open has potential to be more difficult as time goes on. Fail of a startup plus time, less energy, not always more support, age and wisdom less valued can lead to early divests.
A startup or a relationship can mean too much to someone, and that can be heavy. Startups and Relationship need lift and encouragement, easy to not fully understand the requirement without investing sufficient time, thought, and reflection.
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