Inspiring Grace
There are 1000 situations and problems in life that can inspire the words
“You made your bed, now lie in it”
When those situations arise in life, potentially few times in life
Will you have the better words ready at those moments?
Words like “There is Hope, The Future has yet to be Written, Don’t upsell all things that are possible to known, visibility is limited and while I did not experience what you did I can relate, I have had my own experiences that have seemed hopeless and things aren’t always as bad as they seem”
Words likely not worthy of remembering to words that might change the most broken of hearts are possible to inspire, potentially not always invested in with time, thought, and reflection in advance. Easy to get blindsided in the tough times, hard to inspire Trust and Faith, Encouragement over Discouragement when life throws some of the harder curveballs.
Those that use the words “You made your bed, now lie in it” likely are dealing with their own difficulties, potentially lost hopes and lost dreams, if you hear those words will you have the capacity, way to enlighten? Disrespected people have high potential for not all Encouragement Inspired. Disrespected people disrespect people. Thus finding a way to respect others more, and to respond in an enlightening way when disrespected has the potential to be game changing for other’s life and self.
Words can be like fire, not always simple, easy, and light to be words of water, yet words that are water are the most likely to put out the fire before it spreads.
Communication training of others, words that have been inspired are likely upsold to ideal when communication and language is ever changing, ever morphing, and a system that profits some over others many times. Language output will be less than ideal, a little less judgmental, other ways to hear and read things has potential for value added and less value subtracted at times. I know what they meant and they should be trained and inspired to give better words yet I will not let that affect me, I will not carry that hurt forward to respond to them or others has the potential to be power that is likely not always reflected upon.
It might be personal, does not mean it is about your deficits or about the ideal hand that they were dealt. Extracting the words from the people we care about is difficult when we care about them, because we listen, truly listen to those who we care about. Difficult does not equal impossible, difficult does not equal it is unwise to do so, that it might not be far more value added in the long run.