At a young age you are bullied. Taught that high level of contrast and serious don’t fuck with me is important to establish early on.
At 40 you are bullied by others in way that leads to real losses that lead to real losses that reduces ability to be critical support at critical times for family and friends. I do not know who is helping, and enabling those bullying me, they might appreciate a bit of visions from my life experience.
Not all can be trusted with those gems, May God send visions to those He knows He can trust.
Requirement to fight fire with fire is less than an ideal long term amplifier of Love and Grace. Love and Grace are many times seen as light, unmanly, and easy. Love and Grace can be heavy to do right, prepared to deliver without excessive force is more manly than the alternative, and is complex, hard to get right in the best of conditions.
People are results driven many times. Showing People Mercy, Grace, Love, and Real Conversation does not lead to sufficient value, does not lead to sufficient results has high potential for Amping less than sufficiently. It is important for society to show Mercy, Grace, Love, and Real Conversation leads to real results and real change. If people do not see real results others options like War and Violence have potential for becoming options that might not have been options if Mercy, Grace, Love, and Real Conversation were Appreciated and Respected Upfront.
Real Conversation Matters, can save lives, can lead to Peace, can lead to prepared for shifts in society like certain sections of society potentially being turned up as Villain Level Contrast. It is easier to divest from Real Conversations sometimes. Society can damage minds in not fully appreciated ways that can lead to some people excusing themselves from the conversation, too damaged to add true value is possible to turn up.
The man with the mind damaged by the prison system always has ideal capacity to fight the wrongs and oppression in it seems unwise. Fighting Oppression is Hard, is based upon limited knowledge where true knowledge is unwise in not fully appreciated ways to turn up.
Oppression has real potential to be combinationally destructive in a way that makes fighting it in the future harder. Knowing what it is, what it looks like, and divesting upfront can be allot of power not always comprehendible at the time. Oppression creates complexity, some potentially irreversible complexity (Outside of Miracles from God) thus divesting early and often has high potential for huge Returns on Investment (ROI).
Think of divesting from Oppression early and often like a Royal Flush. A rare gem that is like a coin that if put in a Slot Machine will always win the Jackpot. Excessive Force is Oppressive, Contrast required to get people to backoff can Reduce Oppression for some but can also non ideally promote Excessive Force.
Chopping off someone’s hand for stealing is monstrous, is excessive Force. Having everything stolen from you in a way where you can’t provide for your family in critical times is monstrous, is excessive Force.
The system, the free market system that capitalizes on Max Profit is less than ideal corruption reduced, is less than ideal Excessive Force reduced. People and Businesses like to Maximize Profit without always first thinking how will this effect others, others that are citizens just like me, that deserve to be factored in as valuable, because dehumanization is common on Shiny Blue Marble, Earth, and has lead to monstrous choices by out of control unstable government bodies.
Humanization gets upsold to a guarantee. Not the wisest thing to do in a Max Profit system. Dignity matters, reduced dignity for my life my family today potential for I won’t be around to stop it, to speak out against it tomorrow. Oppression has potential to gain momentum, better to limit it upfront.
The Church and God gives feeling of efficiently and effectively protects Orange Haired Caucasians by default? No. Something worthy of praying about. Long suffering as an excuse to allow oppression and bullying to amp should give feelings of good, sufficient deal?
Words of Mercy, Love, Grace, and Real Conversation amp terribly on the Playground and then in High School. High Potential for longer term divestments. Real Conversations are amazing, Real Rebukes that factor in better for others versus max profit are amazing and rare. Not always valued for the value they add, for the comprehension they have the potential to amplify.
Trying to Love someone is not always valued to the level we would like. Earlier divests have the potential for being less limiting, not always understood at a young age. Where and who people invest their ideas and conversation in trying to sway have the potential for less than ideal value added at times, sometimes God needs to work on all people in different ways.
Things that are limited from comprehension factor into results. Not easily understood at a young age, you can do things right does not always equal right results, you can do things wrong and be loved more for it. To say society amps that ideally would be wrong.
People are taught to experiment. Try to solve a problem using SolutionA many times and does not work, potential for trying other Solutions other Solutions that can be turned up non ideally. Creative Solutions that both address problems and are still amping do right by people are not always easy to get right. Have to be the bad guy to get love, because bad guys not loved creates problems, because bad guys are cool teaches less than ideal lessons for later on in life.
The bad guy might learn that early on does not always equal those that watched will not have had an impression made on them. Fair, doing right by other leads to poor results. Being the bad guy, tough guy leads to sufficient results is less than an ideal amplifier in society. Has potential to scale in not appreciated ways, what happens if one of those that had impression on them becomes a general of an army?
Easy to not fully comprehend where those we make an impression on will venture in their life and career. If we knew how things might play out upfront we might take different paths, make different choices. Early impressions shape World View, for better and for worse.
Not manly to humanize the enemy, the opponent, those on the other team, in the other corporations? Fellow citizens that might be able to give you a job when your company goes bankrupt, or vice versa? Love your enemy matters. Humanization and Dignity is a part of love, actions speak louder than words, say “You are amazing, loved and go your way” while leaving those individuals robbed via an oppressive system that one is partially invested in gives feeling of bad deal.
Men have tendency to produce light and distant friendships. Men prefer to be respected as if an Alpha, yet society allows some to thrive while leaving some on the streets. Followers and Audience, Readers Respected is Not Always a Given. Men that are leaders, that have strong opinions have potential for need to establish chain of command. Establishing who is in Charge, who is Leading has potential to amp Friendships less than ideally. Being a Leader can be cold, distant. Being Successful can be cold, distant. Being Right does not always lead to friends and sufficient oxygen in the room, does not always lead to happiness, and is thus many times divested from in advance.
Men able to maintain friendships long term in society has potential for a lot of value creation. Society and Norms can shift in ways people can’t fully comprehend. If ManA and ManB grow apart, potential for easier to shift society in non ideal ways that has potential to lead to ManA and ManB out on the street. Society also turns up Non Disclosures, places wedges like Women in between potential friends. Easy to sour friendships and hard to keep them solid.
Friends that can’t make peace will have ideal capacity to prevent corrupt parties from taking control of governments and corporations? No. Thus making peace early matters is More Valuable than people Realize. Potential long term impacts of friends unable to have real conversation? Sometimes conversation is not about us, it is sometimes about how we can help the other parties think through better decisions. Potential for risk mitigation turned up after failures, I failed them once not sure I can really be of value in conversation. Risk Mitigation can lead to divestment.
Bugs and Intelligence agencies listening on every word seen as amps words ideally would be unwise. Reduced Oxygen in Room for Real Conversation has potential to be not all friendships sufficiently amped.
Words you used in private that should be used to help you are used to test and hurt you is not always a fully comprehended system.