Warning Christian values discussion from a Christian that is not a Priest, Preacher, or Minister might be important to international regulation
Reduced buy in cost for better is valuable. Forgiveness and grace are useful, turned up for good reasons. Accusations have potential to establish needs for requirement for right, protection of one’s point of view, evidence that favors reduced damage and increased protection.
People trying to launch legal cases against each other might not always have each others best interest at heart. Desire to protect one’s self does not equate to desire to do harm to other parties. Yet in protecting one’s self there is high potential to turn off mutually beneficial support, conversation that might lead to peace, forgiveness and grace that profits not just the parties involved.
When one is making an accusation, trying to protect one’s self – possibly turned up due to fee first problem, best defense is good offense, they are likely not always considering how their words, actions, and demeanor might lead to reduced grace, forgiveness, and open communication channels that might lead to many problems solved in advance. It is easy to get angry, it feels right to be angry at times, does not equal anger always leads to ideally better results, results that include less need for protective defensive natures. Cooler head, separating one’s actions from the person is valuable on multiple levels.
From a Christian stand point without sin cast the first stone, and if one looks hard enough we all fall short of perfection. Desire to fix problems at times might lead to desire to set right and wrong, yet setting right and wrong might not actually lead to less problems, problems that one desires to be fixed fixed.
Accusations might hurt sells to parties or people invested or correlated with parties that are the target of the accusation. Desire to establish right and wrong might not equate to desire to limit access to sells and open communication channels with other parties. Not all fights are worth fighting.
There is value in the bible quote don’t go to sleep angry. Yet under continued persecution, jading results and oppression it becomes easy to desire to set right and wrong, be angered by continued injustice, lack of delivery by a loving God. People that are angry are more defensive, more defensive is not always ideal traction for communication, seen as a resilent team member. Failed expectations and injustice facilitates anger, gratitude for the good in a day, capacity to not be enslaved by any particular situation, not let it dictate reduced mercy and grace is valuable.
It might be right to be angry about something, it also might be more valuable for peace to lean on mercy, grace, less than ideal comprehension as a known. Seen as ideal comprehension – all data necessary to make judgment might reinforce feeling of right, feeling of need to be angry. Sometimes it is important to be right, sometimes it is more important to make peace – if the cost of being right is peace – what is right becomes more questionable.
Address problems without burning bridges, making people feel uncared for, unloved – two qualities that facilitate feelings of unforgiveness, imperfection. Potential to turn up discouragement without trying to. Per Golden Rule I want people to feel encouraged, inspired, done right by, accepted, appreciated. Yet I also feel the need to comment on what is right at times, many times from a position of less than ideal visibility, less than ideal comprehension. In engineering there is value in fixing problems fast, throughput of problems solved – the combination might not always lead to examining the problem in a way that will better the most parties – fixed without side effects is valuable, not ideally turned up.
A problem needs to be fixed versus if there is a problem is it valuable to fix it? Needs to be addressed might be a trap, prioritization matters does not always get ideally turned up. To concentrated on small things might lead to reduced overall throughput, reduced overall throughput might be less value than concentrating on small things in the first place.
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