Overweight

A woman that is 400 lbs grows to 1000 lbs. At 1000 lbs she makes the comment “you all go on”, she is trying to help not trying to hurt.

A society of men and women that were not attracted to her at 400 lbs failed to encourage, failed to encourage the right things and discourage the wrong things. Discouraging the wrong things takes investment, investment in words, and time, effort – men that are attracted to skinny, women that reinforce skinny and pretty as ideal do not feel like they have the right to assess, to judge, to comment.

People trying to be nice, trying to do the right thing do not always deliver ideally. The one that told her “your fat, you need to change” might have said it the wrong way, yet might be more value added than those that never said anything in the first place. People that say harsh and discouraging words, do not always do so because they don’t care.

Claim to be ideally inclusive if you have a party that is majority of people that are overweight, claim it reinforces a good thing, claim there is no problem with PR caused by the combination?

It is one person’s responsibility to look out for all with similar problems? One person unlikely to be able to solve similar problems for all. Not think Society divests in mass, bandwagon appeal that leads to insufficient single investments?

Requirement for A level delivery, as if society amplifies ideally (A being grade like in school) has high potential for leading to significant divests. Law and Legalism, requirements to comprehend liabilities has potential to lead to feeling of can’t add value, will be punished if I do.

Society reinforces have to pay if you want to learn more at times, not always wise to turn up. Everything has levels of balance, mean spirited comments not always meant to help, do not always help.

People might set idea to I don’t have to comment on that, I will let the Church, will let good people cover that. They got it all covered? Set to right? It is easy to know how much to invest, if investment is desirable, if one won’t compound problems, if true view, perception, and comprehension is not obfuscated? Golden rule might not always look like Golden rule, does not equate to that always makes things easier. 

People trying to think better of others might let others discourage them further than they should, might wrongly assess sins of a society should be assessed as if carried on the shoulders of that person – where discouragement is perceived to be coming from people (that are less than perfect) or the devil, demons, societal problems that are hard to always see, understand, and realize in a timely manner. Evil should be associated with Evil, not the person committing, involved in the Evil is not always adequately turned up. Accusations, Demonization, and Divides do not always amplify for good reasons, for appropriate reasons, for reasons free of bias, for reasons free of problems that have been invested in, in mass by society, societal norms. The fix isn’t always known, isn’t always easy, isn’t always invested in, does not equate to no fix is non-consequential.

The one that knows the problem does not always know how to fix the problem. The one that knows how to fix the problem does not always know there is a problem. There is value for demons, evil reinforced to allow the two to never actually converse in a way that leads to perception and comprehension. The same person that knows the fix and the problem, might not know the fix is useful for the problem.  Just because people have matching puzzle pieces, does not equate to they always are able to put them together without help.

Some people’s MO might be truth, pain, telling it how it is like pouring salt in a wound. I don’t wish to hurt people, don’t wish to make someone 400 lbs hurt more.  Understanding how speaking out has potential to lead to liability tempts towards judgment, incorrect assessment not always discussed. Pain is not always reinforced for good reasons, when 1000 lbs, when it is too late, is the ideal time to raise ideal comprehension? Imagine if I used all these words to say “Never Say Die! There is Hope” instead.

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