Forgiveness

Forgiving quickly is hard, not always easy to do. Forgiving quickly is wise. Hard to make judgments on unknowns, unknown amount of training, limited resolution. High Potential for getting Judgment Wrong, High Potential for getting Forgiveness made swiftly Right.

Problems happen in life. We have to choose to let them be a Brick Wall that prevents us from moving forward or choose to not let them be a Brick Wall. A Growth Mindset is not always easy. Forgiving Swiftly, not letting self be limited and victimized by choices of others is a decision that can be hard to make.

Wrongs are easy to turn up as an excuse as to why not to move forward, not to deliver, not to grow. Hard to view them as one of many obstacles. Like hurdles on a track, one stops you, have to keep going rather than letting it leave you on the ground. Curveballs that make life harder are an opportunity to grow, are an opportunity to Inspire others not to walk down the same path.

Falling and breaking a leg can be an opportunity to give up or it can be an opportunity to show others how not to end up with a broken leg. Insight and Experience is valuable does not always equal it is nice or enjoyable to be wronged.

Fair, Zero Wrongs as a requirement, prerequisite to make progress in Life has High Potential for being limiting. People don’t Win and Achieve because Life is Fair, Just, People Win and Achieve because of Hard Work, Perseverance, and Luck in spite of an Unjust, Unfair World.

A hypothetical: Two people walking across a wooden bridge that needed maintenance updated known but funds were not available. One person breaks their leg falling through and the other does not. Luck factors into obstacles versus no obstacles. Less oversight and reduced funding factors into obstacles versus no obstacles.

The people walking across the bridge could have fixed it? Could have become a part of Town Hall and made sure there were funds allotted to the bridge? People choose different paths, and many times things go forward without significant hiccups. The paths we choose factor into what support is available at any one given moment. People that limit paths, people that reduce support are part of the system as well.

Maintenance less than ideal factors into Future Support.

Training less than ideal factors into Future Support.

Known Probabilities are far less than ideal, are not always adequate have the potential to change way things are looked at in life. People should be able to drive at night with zero drunk drivers. Realistically there are not zero drunk drivers. Better amplification of support and training does not equal ideal amplification of support and training. Driving can be dangerous and people young (with limited training) are driving and people that are old (with less than ideal health support) are driving.