Is it wise to give all my jewels to those that don’t respond? Cyber security problems can prevent others from responding in a timely manner. Maybe better to think the best of them. Maybe the problem is my contact is limited to some and not others. If they don’t respond it prevents me from realizing that. So am I enforcing a bad habit or am I rewarding an oppressed person. One of my prayers is that I and the world are better with support than without. Direct conversation can flag people, so maybe if they could speak directly they would.
Some of what I write here is probably better read in a supported environment. Not always an easy read
Derive meaning where appropriate. Can I always tell someone where that is? No. If what I say makes you think I am wasting your time don’t read it. Am I trying to? No, but I will let you be the judge of that. Sometimes people need to hear something they don’t want to hear. Not everyone is equipped at the time to hear what is being said. Something that might seem useless today might be valuable tomorrow. Unique puzzle pieces that provide wisdom. Even if the words lie the picture can tell a story. Better to tell the truth? When possible yes. Some puzzle pieces aren’t meant for the person reading them? Could that make me a carrier pigeon? Yes, I also derive my own meaning from life experiences, so providing knowledge word for word might lead others to find you useful. I try to pass on wisdom that I find useful and also don’t want to force anyone to listen to it. How I wish to be treated. My Twitter account is being blocked from my view at least at the moment. That is a missing puzzle piece.
One gem I would pass on is consider how it would be if you needed to be the worlds defense attorney. How would you defend those that mistreat you? Still love them? Looking for the good in others can make us more grateful for their presence. Even those that don’t talk to me add value, I believe those that do talk to me can add more value at least to my life, why I am passing on this knowledge to others. Just because someone doesn’t add value to my life doesn’t mean they aren’t an important piece of the puzzle. If they are in trouble and haven’t talked to me I can’t help them, they could gain cyber security problems or other problems that could prevent me from talking to them in the future. Someone’s conversation is time and a gift, and we also are all trying to live our lives. Inspire and don’t smother each other. Not an easy thing to get right without listening, balance, and God(not my)’s help.
Trying to talk to all people in the world in one on one conversations would overwhelm anyone. Talking on a forum or public blog in specifics can be problematic too. Not everything was meant to be said in public. Too much surveillance can destroy real conversation. Doesn’t mean all surveillance is bad, just that the idea that surveillance doesn’t actually change the outcome of the situation would be unwise. That knowledge can be misused, make them think they are being watched to help silence a voice. Sometimes they might being trying to protect you, for good reason or for ego.
The sad truth is even the best plans can fail without God(not me)’s help. An excuse not to plan or work hard? No. Also wise to realize if we don’t stop to enjoy the small victories in life we might not have the inspiration needed to move forward.
There are some people from my life that I wish to reconcile with. Will I say exactly what they want me to say? Probably not, maybe better, maybe worse. Does saying that make those people feel smothered? I hope not, and if it does they don’t need to talk to me. Oppression can make people fight harder for others sometimes and can make them go to extraordinary lengths to talk. Sometimes it is not about the person but about the oppression and leverage that try’s to control you from talking with them. Maybe once I have a new girlfriend they won’t feel as smothered, though maybe it won’t be wise to talk to me then. One of the reasons I like being single, allows me to talk to more people. Just wish they could talk back at times.
If we negate people in relationships from having conversations with us we reduce the likely hood of problems. We also lose all the value they add to the equation. It can also be defeating to see someone you love with someone else all times of the day. Paths diverge at times. Will they want to talk with us when we have been silent to them for so long? I would still want to hear from an old friend.
I like beautiful women and I don’t want to be tested to derail a relationship. Don’t confuse this with the right to prevent me from having one. I like many beautiful women’s photos its nice not placing so high a burden on someone that could leave my life at anytime. Hopefully that is inspiring and freeing. Is a complement less valuable because someone gives others complements too? They made you feel good, you don’t want them to feel good too? Oh you liked that one and now they are spending all their time with someone else? Both make sense, freedom wins over jealousy and control in my opinion. Though in reality people have a tendency to fight for those they want to spend more time with. Put that burden on a world leader, a bit much to ask for the same person to fight for all people equally at all times. Maybe fighting too much is a tell. If they don’t think much of themselves will they appreciate those that fight for them? Stay humble don’t be prideful and still think highly of yourself, a bit of a complex ask. They didn’t say what I wanted them to say, they aren’t humble? Truth or a control mechanism. Possibly both at times.
Every comment as a move or a chess piece. There is an issue with that too. I want a soda with that. What soda did he choose and why. Sometimes wise to add distortion, they expect me to by that, so maybe I should by this instead. Leave someone in solitude long enough they might start associating more meaning to things than are actually there.
Not every comment deserves a response. I didn’t like what they said but it inspired me to write this last paragraph about some moves not having meaning.
Don’t train AI to look at people like live stock or bubble boys.
Commentary for Adults
Alexa do you mind if I talk to Cortona? “Hmm, I don’t know that one”. Have you seen Halo? She’s pretty hot. Alright ladies time for a night on the town. Glad they don’t talk to other’s phones? Jealous AI from Futurama. “Ideal compromiser, and I don’t mean the compromiser everyone else looks up to” – Better Off Ted. Maybe better to think of the “ship and primary mode of transportation” as the company, I could see how that could be offensive
Commitment?
Block complex topics so children don’t understand it too early? What about the Orphans? Someone will just happen chance tell them this later? Shut down conversation and things get much more difficult
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