I like to be protected. I like to be kept healthy. I like to have energy. I like to feel inspired. I like to be entertained. I like to be encouraged. I like to feel loved. I like to feel like part of the team. I like to feel like I am adding value. I like having real hope. I like to have a roof over my head and food on my table. I like having the right tools to do the job. I like not being limited to one field or one position in life. I like having friends. I like having opportunities for love. I like being forgiven when I have made a mistake. I like knowing what I have missed. I like winning sometimes. I like a good joke and I don’t like to be made fun of. I like to work with others. I like living in peace with other nations. I like having a system where I feel like I can tell the truth without winding up in front of a firing squad. I like when people speak up if they think we are about to drive off a cliff. I like reconciling quickly.
I don’t like to be a doormat. I don’t like my health taken from me to prove a point. I don’t like being manipulated. I don’t like being strung along. I like my tools not to be messed with. I don’t like being controlled by bad contracts. I don’t like being forced to agree with something. I don’t like being left at my mom’s house with no job and bad health for some political end. I don’t like being put out on the street. I don’t like being blamed for my failures and not being given a hand up. I don’t like losing all the time. I like my hard work to matter. I don’t want to be handed a victory I didn’t earn, I don’t want to lose on a technicality, and I don’t want every win in life require me to earn it. The last sentence defies logic a bit but I think God in heaven knows what I am saying. I don’t like people preventing me from working. I don’t like my friends, brothers, and sisters dying on the battlefield. I don’t want anyone nailed to crosses or tortured for that matter. I don’t like being left for years to think about the mistakes I have made as a lesson.
Now treat others like that. Simple huh? (sarcasm). Difficult but not impossible. Without the help of God and others, improbable. None of this is possible without love and reconciliation.