Let me first say I think you are beautiful and I don’t have all the answers. I am far from perfect, and I am the product of a broken support network. I have been unfairly labeled as mentally ill for trying to tell the truth. I wanted to share my thoughts though they might be annoying.
My first thought would be bulimia. Doesn’t mean it is the right thought. People that are closer to the situation probably have better insight. How to actually help when people don’t want help is difficult. How to help when support networks can’t be trusted is difficult. Is it wiser in this case not to get involved? Possibly. Getting involved might be the right choice and at the same time have a potential for backlash. Hope she has a father that is looking out for her. The way she talks seems more interested in discrediting the comments than explaining her body type is different. This seems to be a cause for concern. Could also be lack of resources or addiction. Could be factors that I can’t comprehend.
Now if I posted this comment would I add value or subtract? Her words say keep the conversation open but her tone sounds like she doesn’t want discussion. “Remember my door is always open, please shut it on your way out.” – Better Off Ted
So maybe the first comment should be? Do you have a support network you can trust? If she doesn’t is she going to say she doesn’t? Probably not. If she thinks she could have one would she want one. I would think so, who doesn’t want people they can truly trust in their life? Some are burned and jaded so badly they might think they are past positive interactions. How do people add value to that? I don’t have the answer to that, maybe someone that has been through it would be better equipped to discuss. This mentality by the masses fuels apathy. Apathy by the masses reinforces the jade. Damned if you do damned if you don’t, possibly. Those that lack humility and would prefer to harbor resentment are more easily jaded. No reconciliation and no forgiveness equals no peace. Who really wants to tell someone that is already hurting and jaded this? Would someone that truly cares about her omit this? No.
This is like pulling out a tooth that is infected without novicane. Temporary pain could save a life. Though depending on the backlash could be incredibly hurtful. “Right or happy, take your pick“
This is not saying I have any of this right. Maybe you could help tell me where I am wrong. I am a man who is small and I use nicotine because people are preventing me from getting proper healthcare. Last I am a believer in God and do have doubts at times, the God I believe in loves you and wants you to be happy
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